Clinical Services

Consultation / Evaluation

The purpose of a consultation is to provide a comprehensive assessment of the patient’s difficulties, a diagnosis and a recommended treatment plan. Consultations generally require my meeting with the patient two or three times, after which I share my understanding of his or her difficulties and recommendations for treatment. It is my practice to precede the start of all psychotherapeutic work with a consultation. If I have time available for new patients, I will make this clear prior to the first consultation meeting. If the patient is seeking a second opinion, I will, with the patient’s consent, share my findings with the referring doctor or the patient’s therapist.

Psychoanalysis

Psychoanalysis is a form of intensive psychotherapy based on the belief that factors beyond our conscious awareness have a profound influence on our behavior. Unbeknownst to us as we go about our daily lives, these factors (implicit beliefs about self and others, unconscious wishes and fantasies) are often related to the difficulties for which patients seek treatment.

Psychoanalysis is often indicated for people whose lives are essentially stable, who have achieved some success in work and relationships but for whom an enduring sense of life satisfaction or relief from troubling symptoms has proved elusive. Psychoanalysis can be helpful for people who experience:

  • Chronically poor self-esteem

  • Feelings of ineffectiveness and failures of performance in work

  • Inflexibility, rigidity, and a strong need for control

  • Chronic anxieties

  • Recurrent depression

  • Problems feeling happy and satisfied, even when things are “going well”

  • Problems with anger and irritability

  • Recurring disappointments in love relationships and friendships

  • Problems with intimate and sexual relationships

Patients in psychoanalysis attend four times per week and are encouraged to lie on an analytic couch during sessions. Both the session frequency and the use of the couch are designed to help patients explore the full range and content of their mental and emotional life, without censor, and without attention to what is socially appropriate. The patient’s dream life, fantasies, memories, experiences in relationships and work, and reactions to the analyst are frequent subjects of investigation in psychoanalytic treatment. By examining the themes raised by the patient and through learning about repeated patterns of behavior, thought, and feeling in the patient’s life outside of treatment, the psychoanalyst is able to generate and share hypotheses about the patient’s underlying, unconscious motivations, and how these relate to the patient’s present-day difficulties.

Psychoanalysis is frequently caricatured as a treatment that focuses on the patient’s past. Although many psychoanalysts would agree that one’s experience of early family relationships forms important templates for later experiences, many modes of contemporary psychoanalysis involve an intensive examination of the patient’s current life through the lenses of work, love, and interpersonal relationships. This characterizes my approach to psychoanalysis.

Psychoanalysis is a collaborative venture in which learning and growth occur not simply through the intellectual understanding of the patient’s difficulties, but through the emergence of problematic behaviors, thoughts, and feelings in and related to the relationship with the psychoanalyst. The emergence of the patient’s difficulties in the treatment relationship and their discussion in ‘real-time’ with the psychoanalyst promotes an emotion-based learning that is particularly powerful.

Over the course of an analysis, through the enactment time and again of troubling behavioral patterns and their discussion in the treatment, the jointly constructed understanding of the patient’s difficulties sharpens. Patients start to feel that they have greater sense of self awareness and control in their lives, resulting in an expanded range of choice in work and relationships. Ultimately, an enduring, more positive experience of oneself, one’s relationships and one’s activities prevails.

Psychotherapy

Psychotherapy is based on the same principles as psychoanalysis but differs in two key respects: patients are seen less frequently (once or twice, rather than three or four times weekly), and patients are seated rather than supine. A determination of suitability for psychoanalysis versus psychotherapy is made according to several factors, assessed during an initial consultation, including: the nature and extent of the patient’s presenting difficulties; the patient’s life situation; and logistical considerations such as sessions times and fees.

Couple Therapy

My approach to working with couples draws from contemporary psychoanalytic, systems, and cognitive perspectives to address the problems related to communication, intimacy, sexuality, and partnership with which couples frequently present. With couples, the work is problem- and solution-focused. In the evaluation period I work to clarify the nature of the difficulty and the contributing behaviors of each partner that maintain the presenting problems and mutual sense of impasse. Over the course of treatment couples develop an understanding of why they are drawn in, repeatedly, to conflicts with similar content (money, child-rearing, sharing responsibilities, sex) or form (one approaches, the other withdraws; one asserts, the other submits, but resents). By the conclusion of treatment, each member of the couple develops an improved understanding of their respective fears and anxieties about change and the skills to break the maladaptive cycle of communication or impasse on their own.

In addition to helping couples resolve areas of conflict, I also help couples identify and cultivate areas of interest, passion, and strength. Research has shown that these positive factors provide resilience against the inevitable stresses associated with couplehood, and that couples that understand, appreciate, and actively support and enjoy one another stay together longer and with greater satisfaction.

Training & Supervision

Training & Consultation

Dr. Stern has lectured and trained extensively on topics related to the psychoanalytic assessment of personality disorders, and the psychoanalytic psychotherapy of patients with borderline, narcissistic, and other personality disorders, in particular, Transference-Focused Psychotherapy (TFP). Dr. Stern is available to speak or consult with professional associations, mental health trainees (e.g., medical residents / fellows, psychology or social work externs or interns), mental health treatment center staff, and other organizations in a variety of consultative and teaching formats that could include didactic, case consultation, and formal training components. Consultation and teaching is customized to meet the specific needs of each client, and the format and fees are negotiated on an individual basis.

Supervision

Dr. Stern is available to provide clinical supervision of psychoanalytic psychotherapy to doctoral-level psychologists and social workers, and to medical doctors. Dr. Stern is also a certified teacher and trainer of Transference-Focused Psychotherapy for personality disorders (TFP). Each supervisee must be licensed to practice in his or her respective discipline.